In honour of Sex and the City officially available to stream on Netflix, I thought I’d revisit one of my favourite fictional characters: Samantha Jones. I’ve seen a lot of Gen Z girlies writing online about how the show is cringey and outdated and to that I have to say: “You’re 22. What do you know about life?” à la Charlotte York. Even I’ll admit, there are many cringe-worthy moments in the show. But one character who has limitless life lessons to learn from is the iconic Samantha Jones.

Samantha Jones, portrayed by Kim Cattrall, has undoubtedly left a lasting impression with her bold approach to life and love. One of the key lessons we can learn from Samantha is the importance of self-confidence and owning your sexuality. Throughout the series, Samantha fearlessly embraces her desires and doesn’t shy away from expressing her needs. Her attitude teaches us to be true to ourselves and unafraid of pursuing what we want. Additionally, Samantha demonstrates the value of friendship and loyalty, always being there for her friends through thick and thin.

Despite her outspoken nature, Samantha’s heart is always in the right place, showing us that being authentic and supportive in our relationships is essential. She is revered for her bold personality and unforgettable on-screen moments. One of Samantha’s most iconic lines is when she famously proclaimed, "I’m a try-sexual. I’ll try anything once." It perfectly encapsulates her fearless and adventurous attitude towards life and love.

Another series of standout moments are her fierce fashion choices. She confidently struts around New York showing the world her unapologetic embrace of her sexuality and self-confidence. Samantha’s unwavering independence and support of her friends also shone through, making her a beloved character that continues to inspire fabulous women each and every day.

11 Iconic Life Lessons We Can Learn from Samantha Jones

1. Know yourself best and be confident in who you are.

2. If you’re rolling your eyes, it’s not for you.

3. You don’t need a man to be happy, you can do that all by yourself.

4. Self love is everlasting and should always come first.

5. Sometimes politics really are that simple.

6. Always give people the benefit of the doubt. If they’re unworthy of your time, their personality will let you know.

7. Blocking people from your memory is good for your mental health.

8. Give compliments, but also know your own worth.

9. Honesty still is the best policy.

10. Your life doesn’t have to take a traditional approach. You can have shoes instead of babies.

11. There are times where you have to smile through the pain to get to the good stuff.

Embracing a Samantha Jones approach to life means fearlessly pursuing what sets your soul on fire, unapologetically owning your sexuality, and embodying a fierce independence that commands respect. It involves facing challenges with a no-nonsense attitude, exuding confidence in every stride, and daring to defy societal norms with a touch of audacity. Samantha’s boldness serves as a reminder to prioritize self-love, take risks unabashedly, and savour every experience offered to you without hesitation.

By channeling her sassy spirit, you can navigate life with a refreshing boldness that inspires others and cultivates a deep sense of empowerment within themselves. What life lessons from Samantha Jones are you going to put into action first?

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